With an interest (obsession?) in dating mastery for a long time, I happen to come across other like-minded people who improve my knowledge in this area. One French Pick Up Artist I met really gave off a carefree feeling of somebody with success in this area, and he demonstrates this stuff to other guys in live workshops with Alpha Interactions. He goes by the pseudonym of DeepVertigo, and I asked him to add his experience on the site. Here is he is…
Hello,
This is a very short summary about my point of view. I forgot a lot 
“I have a lot of dates but I crashed them all. “
“What do I have to say to girl after she gives me Indicators Of Interest?”….
I’ve heard these questions so many times. Guess what, I give an answer in 3 words:
GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Of course you have nothing to say, what will you speak about except this board and your wing? That you are level 32 at World of Warcraft? How you burn this pizza last time because you fall asleep on your keyboard?
Comfort is based on your personality and your life. I don’t ask you to become a rock-star or to have a jet-set life-style. There are a lot of activities to do in your city but most importantly with your friends.
Some examples:
Sports: like karting, running, boxing anything which makes you feel alive and healthy. It improves your sexual, mental and body performances….
Key word: Challenging, limit breaking, fitness, health, feelings….
Arts and cultures: the museum, cinema, languages courses, dancing classes…
Key words: sharing, curiosity, discovery, emotions, feelings, imagination, creation….
You don’t need to become Picasso or Ali. Just do it for yourself, do something you really like and appreciate. If you have to do it every Tuesday, don’t cancel it just for a date or your girlfriend. Your hobbies and interest are far more important than girls. One of the main reason girls loves artists. Their lifestyle is their identity.
Another good thing is to travel: it opens your mind about other culture, and you will find out new people with different way of life and thoughts. Plus you can improve your cultural knowledge and language skills if you want to. I read some people travel only to get laid. It pisses me off.
Last time I visited Netherlands, I approached a girl just to get a free guide, not really to sleep with her.
“I am poor, I can’t afford it”
Instead of drinking every week-end, stay home for three weeks and go abroad for four days. There is a couch surfing website and you can sleep in somebody’s place for free. A London to Marseille return ticket = 90 Euros = 2 drunk week-ends doing your usual thing. About food, pasta is cheap you can eat only pasta for 2/3 days, it won’t kill you.
But before travelling, have really explored your own town? Each place is full of culture, history and foreigners (thanks Europe). There are simple things too, like going for picnics on the beach or the countryside, zoo, public swimming-pools….
You have no excuses. Get a life with your friends, and switch off your computer! Try to forget pick-up for one months and enjoy real life, then set up some dates, and speak about what you did last months, and describe not only what you did but how it was, what did you feel, what is coming next!
This is how real comfort is build. Your true-self will change, only in a good way
Hope it helps!
DV.