Body language is important, it doesn’t matter how many lines you have, or even how big a wit you are, if you aren’t demonstrating confidence in your body language and tonality, the girl will blow you off in the first few seconds.
This video shows the difference good body language makes. The key points I spotted were:
- Notice how Clark Kent is hunched over, while Superman’s chest comes out as if he is taking a deep breath. He keeps his head up. Not too high to appear proud, but level. Imagine a piece of gold string attached to the top of your head, if you pull the string, it brings your head how it should be.
- Confidence in eyes, and smiling. A smile is important. A PUA I once met says he walks through the club with a smile as if he had just been on the holiday of his dreams, and it made all the girls stare at him, and its something that you can do with the power of your imagination, even if you’re not creating these kind of experiences in your life right now.
- Deeper, slower voice. I’ve heard a very successful Pick Up Artist say that voice tonality and projection is the single most important attractor with women. I would add that accent plays an important part too. It’s all about being bold; you can be loud and bold, but you don’t need to be loud to be bold. Try recording your voice while talking on the phone, and see how much you like it.
Take a step back from yourself and feel what your body language, voice and expressions are saying about you today.
voice is extremely important, even if yours isn’t really deep, slow it down and be direct, not fast and high pitched like chris rock