Archive for November, 2007

Pick Up Artist Terminology Exposed.

Published on November 13, 2007 in Articles. 1 Comment

There are many terms used in the seduction community, and in the videos/articles here. Originally they had the purpose of taking away the mental conditioning attatched to words such as ‘date’ (which became Day 2), or to describe new concepts (such as negging).

With the improvement of the teachings now, the terms are obsolete, or carry their own geeky mental conditioning themselves, and I try not to use them now. I’ll add to this list as I use them on the site. :)

AMOG – Acornym for Alpha Male Other Guy. Often describing a PUA who is competing for or obstructing the target, or just being an ass. Used as a verb, meaning to block the PUA from closing the target; Amogging.

Body Rock – To lean or turn away from the girl to give the impression that the PUA is losing interest.

Close – To attain the girls number (Number Close), email (Email Close), or to take further phycially (Full-Close).

Demonstrate Higher Value, DHV - To subtly suggest attractive traits about oneself.

Neg, Negging – To give an underhand comment that, though on the surface seems innocent and uncontrived, has the desired effect of lowering the self-percieved social value of the girl. For example: [PUA]Nice nails… are they real? [girl] …no [PUA] Oh… well, they’re nice anyway.

PUA – Pick Up Artist.

Sarging - To go out seeking targets.

Set - describing a group of girls, often used with the number of girls in the group, e.g. ‘2 set’

Take-away – For the PUA to take his attention away from his target in order for her to desire him more, possibly by Body Rocking.

Target - The girl the PUA is attracted to.

Mystery and Matador on Being Playful

Published on November 13, 2007 in Interviews. Closed

Real Comfort Building by Deep Vertigo

Published on November 12, 2007 in Articles. Closed

With an interest (obsession?) in dating mastery for a long time, I happen to come across other like-minded people who improve my knowledge in this area. One French Pick Up Artist I met really gave off a carefree feeling of somebody with success in this area, and he demonstrates this stuff to other guys in live workshops with Alpha Interactions. He goes by the pseudonym of DeepVertigo, and I asked him to add his experience on the site. Here is he is…

Hello,

This is a very short summary about my point of view. I forgot a lot :)

“I have a lot of dates but I crashed them all. “
“What do I have to say to girl after she gives me Indicators Of Interest?”….

I’ve heard these questions so many times. Guess what, I give an answer in 3 words:

GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

Of course you have nothing to say, what will you speak about except this board and your wing? That you are level 32 at World of Warcraft? How you burn this pizza last time because you fall asleep on your keyboard?
Comfort is based on your personality and your life. I don’t ask you to become a rock-star or to have a jet-set life-style. There are a lot of activities to do in your city but most importantly with your friends.

Some examples:
Sports: like karting, running, boxing anything which makes you feel alive and healthy. It improves your sexual, mental and body performances….
Key word: Challenging, limit breaking, fitness, health, feelings….

Arts and cultures: the museum, cinema, languages courses, dancing classes…
Key words: sharing, curiosity, discovery, emotions, feelings, imagination, creation….

You don’t need to become Picasso or Ali. Just do it for yourself, do something you really like and appreciate. If you have to do it every Tuesday, don’t cancel it just for a date or your girlfriend. Your hobbies and interest are far more important than girls. One of the main reason girls loves artists. Their lifestyle is their identity.

Another good thing is to travel: it opens your mind about other culture, and you will find out new people with different way of life and thoughts. Plus you can improve your cultural knowledge and language skills if you want to. I read some people travel only to get laid. It pisses me off.

Last time I visited Netherlands, I approached a girl just to get a free guide, not really to sleep with her.

“I am poor, I can’t afford it”
Instead of drinking every week-end, stay home for three weeks and go abroad for four days. There is a couch surfing website and you can sleep in somebody’s place for free. A London to Marseille return ticket = 90 Euros = 2 drunk week-ends doing your usual thing. About food, pasta is cheap you can eat only pasta for 2/3 days, it won’t kill you.

But before travelling, have really explored your own town? Each place is full of culture, history and foreigners (thanks Europe). There are simple things too, like going for picnics on the beach or the countryside, zoo, public swimming-pools….

You have no excuses. Get a life with your friends, and switch off your computer! Try to forget pick-up for one months and enjoy real life, then set up some dates, and speak about what you did last months, and describe not only what you did but how it was, what did you feel, what is coming next!

This is how real comfort is build. Your true-self will change, only in a good way :)

Hope it helps!
DV.

Alpha Male Behavior Clip – Clark Kent

Published on November 7, 2007 in Alpha Male Behaviour Clips. 1 Comment

Body language is important, it doesn’t matter how many lines you have, or even how big a wit you are, if you aren’t demonstrating confidence in your body language and tonality, the girl will blow you off in the first few seconds.


This video shows the difference good body language makes. The key points I spotted were:

  • Notice how Clark Kent is hunched over, while Superman’s chest comes out as if he is taking a deep breath. He keeps his head up. Not too high to appear proud, but level. Imagine a piece of gold string attached to the top of your head, if you pull the string, it brings your head how it should be.
  • Confidence in eyes, and smiling. A smile is important. A PUA I once met says he walks through the club with a smile as if he had just been on the holiday of his dreams, and it made all the girls stare at him, and its something that you can do with the power of your imagination, even if you’re not creating these kind of experiences in your life right now.
  • Deeper, slower voice. I’ve heard a very successful Pick Up Artist say that voice tonality and projection is the single most important attractor with women. I would add that accent plays an important part too. It’s all about being bold; you can be loud and bold, but you don’t need to be loud to be bold. Try recording your voice while talking on the phone, and see how much you like it.

Take a step back from yourself and feel what your body language, voice and expressions are saying about you today.